Have we made sex scary?

// My unmarried friend said she was so scared of sex that she wanted to marry someone who would be ok...

Written by Rachel Ridler

Being harsh with the horny

// I doubt whether it’s a coincidence that the period of my life during which my attitude to sex was at...

Written by Jonty Langley

Don’t ask, don’t tell

// In a 2011 American survey 80% of unmarried 18-29 year olds respondents describing themselves as evangelical had also had sex.

Written by Vicky Walker

The sexual position for single Christians

// Being 32 and committing to no sex before marriage for the last few years does propel the eyebrows of new...

Written by Carrie Lloyd

The virginity of Jesus

// Doesn’t the fact that Jesus was born of a virgin mother and that he lived a celibate life suggest that...

Written by Alastair Roberts

How not to have an affair

// I know people who have had affairs. They’re all good people who made stupid mistakes. Stupid mistakes leading to irreconcilably-damaged...

Written by Nathan Jones

Why you’re holy – even if you watch porn

// Sex is everywhere. A constant bombardment. I live in Phnom Penh, a deeply sexualised culture with massage parlours on every...

Written by Steve Edwards

Sex saturation, disconnect and healing

// Christians and the Church are particularly known for passing comment, judgement and instruction about sex and pointing the finger at...

Written by Harriet Long

Wedding night fails: tales from the honeymoon suite

// There’s nothing like the pressure on Christians for a perfect marriage night. From the bride of Christ to the love-drunk...

Written by Charis Gibson